Dear mum Well today would be your 81st birthday. Unlike last year when we were out with dad and you, we will not be all together today but you are very much in our thoughts today. Christmas is very near and it is very difficult to imagine the day without you and dad. Every time I start to write a christmas present list I have to stop myself from putting you and dad at the top as I always did. Can't buy you a present this year so will donate to a charity in both your names. Love you mum and missing you both so very much. Lynne xxxx